What It Means To Be A Second Choice

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It means you are probably a pretty great person, but it also means you will never feel that way. You are the friend who is always the next one chosen. You are the second one called; you are the second one texted. It’s not comparable to being the last, or the first, because it is it’s own feeling. It means you never will feel like you are good enough, and you’re probably right. When you are second choice in all of your relationships it means you constantly feel like you are in a competition.

It means you have to make the plans and no one will make plans with you. It doesn’t mean people don’t want to spend time with you, it just means they won’t think of you until after they’ve run through their first choices. Rest easy in knowing you are not an outcast, but suffer silently knowing you…

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